Okay – now we will unpack together the stages of falling in love… The Fall “Each Note” Advice doesn’t help lovers They’re not the kind of mountain stream You can build a dam across. An intellectual doesn’t know What the drunk is feeling! Don’t try to figure What those lost inside love Will do next!… [...]

Eventually we fall out of love and realize that we were totally blind – how could we not have seen this or that!? What hoodwinked fools we were! It is for this reason that most books on the subject actually suggest that falling in love has nothing to do with love. Indeed many wise teachers [...]

Okay..in the last two blogs I got a bit ahead of myself so with your permission I want to retrace our steps and unfold this falling in love mystery step by gentle step. Okay, ready to go? Here is the next step! Agatha Christie, after marrying Sir Max Mallowan, a well-known archaeologist, gave this pithy [...]

Before we really get deep into the falling in love conversation – I could not resist a word from Rumi… gorgeous day to all of you lovers … “Each Note” Advice doesn’t help lovers They’re not the kind of mountain stream You can build a dam across. An intellectual doesn’t know What the drunk is [...]

Agatha Christie, after marrying Sir Max Mallowan, a well-known archaeologist, gave this pithy advise to her gender, “All women should marry archaeologists – as you get older, they invariably become more and more interested in you.” It all sounds wonderful except for one thing. It is so often not true. Remember, the worn expression “love [...]