You begin to realize that you are in fact not an isolated or separate part, but rather you are part of the whole, of All-That-Is.
Once, however, you have had that realization or even a glimmer of that realization, the personal will begin to come back online at a higher level.
At this point, your Unique self, your feeling of specialness, reemerges, but this time in a far more clean, clear, and crystalline form.
As my lineage master, Mordechai Lainer of Izbica, taught, when you evolve beyond ego, your uniqueness/specialness does not disappear; it becomes clarified.
At the Unique Self, you reconnect to your specialness with the stunning realization: You are special! You are unique!
Your Unique Self (p. 62, 63)