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	<title>Marc Gafni</title>
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		<title>A Conversation with Marc Gafni and John Mackey on Shadow</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 16:54:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this last video of our seven-part dialogue series, our two authors (Your Unique Self and Conscious Capitalism) discuss the issue of shadow – both in the context of our personal life as well as in the context of business. In our modern world the narrative of business seems to have become the shadow story, [...]]]></description>
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<p>In this last video of our seven-part dialogue series, our two authors (<a href="http://uniqueself.com/" target="_blank"><em>Your Unique Self</em></a> and <a href="http://www.consciouscapitalism.org/" target="_blank"><em>Conscious Capitalism</em></a>) discuss the issue of shadow – both in the context of our personal life as well as in the context of business. In our modern world the narrative of business seems to have become the shadow story, while its heroic part of creating value for humanity and the world has become hidden.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ievolve.org/wisdom-for-your-week-a-conversation-with-marc-gafni-and-john-mackey-on-shadow-1/" target="_blank">Click here to see the video of Marc and John dialogue on Shadow&#8212;></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.marc-gafni.tumblr.com/" title="Marc Gafni on Tumblr" target="_blank">Click here to see Dr. Marc Gafni on Tumblr<br />
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		<title>Distinction between Unique Self and Ego #14: Friendship or Pseudofriendship</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 18:24:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Dr. Marc Gafni in Your Unique Self. When you are in ego, you might help friends who are successful and even friends who are down, as long as it does not threaten your position. But you are not capable of truly delighting in your deepest heart in a friend’s large success. When you are [...]]]></description>
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<p>by <a href="http://integralthinkers.com/authors/marc-gafni/" target="_blank">Dr. Marc Gafni </a>in <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Your-Unique-Self-Personal-Enlightenment/dp/1467522775/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1368477828&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=unique+self+by+marc+gafni" target="_blank">Your Unique Self</a>.<br />
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<p>When you are in ego, you might help friends who are successful and even friends who are down, as long as it does not threaten your position. But you are not capable of truly delighting in your deepest heart in a friend’s large success. <em><strong>When you are in Unique Self, your deepest heart delights in your friend’s success, even if there is nothing in it for you at all</strong></em>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ievolve.org/daily-wisdom-distinction-between-unique-self-and-ego-14-friendship-or-pseudofriendship/" target="_blank">Click here to read full post by CWS Scholar Heather Fester&#8212;></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.facebook.com/DrMarcGafni" target="_blank">Click here to see Dr Marc Gafni on Facebook</a></p>
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		<title>Betrayal or Loyalty – Distinction between Ego and Unique Self #13</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 20:50:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Dr. Marc Gafni from Your Unique Self The ego betrays. The Unique Self is loyal. When you are in your ego, and things go bad, you are willing—in your fear—to betray virtually anyone. Your ego is easily identifiable by the shallowness of its integrity. If you live in Unique Self and things go bad, [...]]]></description>
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<p>by <strong><a href="http://www.marcgafni.com/" target="_blank">Dr. Marc Gafni</a></strong> from <strong><a href="http://uniqueself.com/" target="_blank">Your Unique Self</a></strong></p>
<p><em><strong>The ego betrays. The Unique Self is loyal.</strong></em> When you are in your ego, and things go bad, you are willing—in your fear—to betray virtually anyone. Your ego is easily identifiable by the shallowness of its integrity. If you live in Unique Self and things go bad, you find your way, through thick or thin, to a deeper center of spirit.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ievolve.org/daily-wisdom-betrayal-or-loyalty-distinction-between-ego-and-unique-self-13-2/" title="Kerstin Tuschik on Marc Gafni " target="_blank">See the full post by CWS Scholar Kerstin Tuschik on the Center for World Spirituality Website&#8212;></a></p>
<p><a href="www.facebook.com/DrMarcGafni" target="_blank">See Marc Gafni on Facebook&#8212;></a></p>
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		<title>A Conversation with Marc Gafni and John Mackey on Jealousy and Envy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 13:41:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; In the sixth video of the seven-part dialogue series, Marc Gafni (author of Your Unique Self) and John Mackey (co-author with Raj Sisodia of Conscious Capitalism) define and discuss jealousy, malice, resentment, and envy in the framework of business, Unique Self, and Conscious Capitalism. See the full post by CWS Scholar Heather Fester on [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_3183" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 252px"><a href="http://www.ievolve.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/John-Mackey-photos_carrotapple_joe-p-004.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-3183 " alt="John Mackey" src="http://www.ievolve.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/John-Mackey-photos_carrotapple_joe-p-004-242x300.jpg" width="242" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text"><em>John Mackey is Chairman and CEO of Whole Foods Market, as well as the Co-Chair of the Center for World Spirituality Board of Trustees.</em><br /> </p></div>
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<p>In the sixth video of the seven-part dialogue series, Marc Gafni (author of <i><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Your-Unique-Self-Personal-Enlightenment/dp/1467522775/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1368477828&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=unique+self+by+marc+gafni" target="_blank">Your Unique Self</a></i>) and John Mackey (co-author with Raj Sisodia of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Conscious-Capitalism-Liberating-Heroic-Business/dp/1422144208/ref=sr_1_1_ha?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1368477891&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=conscious+capitalism" target="_blank"><i>Conscious Capitalism</i></a>) define and discuss jealousy, malice, resentment, and envy in the framework of business, Unique Self, and Conscious Capitalism.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ievolve.org/wisdom-for-your-week-a-conversation-with-marc-gafni-and-john-mackey-on-jealousy-and-envy-2/" target="_blank">See the full post by CWS Scholar Heather Fester on the Center for World Spirituality website&#8212;></a><a href="http://www.ievolve.org/wisdom-for-your-week-a-conversation-with-marc-gafni-and-john-mackey-on-jealousy-and-envy-2/" target="_blank"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.facebook.com/DrMarcGafni" target="_blank">See Marc Gafni on Facebook&#8212;></a></p>
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		<title>Distinction between Ego and Unique Self #12: Victim or Player</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 17:39:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In your ego, you cling to every petty detail of your story. You never let go of any of your wounds. Your mantra is “I hurt, therefore I am.” Therefore, your ego can never wholeheartedly forgive. If it does, the ego’s forgiveness is a tactic, not a sacrament. Your Unique Self forgives freely without giving [...]]]></description>
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<p>In your ego, you cling to every petty detail of your story. You never let go of any of your wounds. Your mantra is “I hurt, therefore I am.” Therefore, your ego can never wholeheartedly forgive. If it does, the ego’s forgiveness is a tactic, not a sacrament. Your Unique Self forgives freely without giving up your own truth.</p>
<p>From the evolutionary context of your Unique Self, you realize that you have a Unique Gift to give to All-That-Is. You are animated, driven, and drawn by that larger vision and obligation. This allows you to place your wounds in a larger perspective. <b><i>Your Unique Self is not a victim. It is an audacious player in the Great Story of the evolution of consciousness.</i></b> This larger perspective allows you to begin to let go of the story of your wounds. As it is replaced by the greater story of your Unique Self, delight and obligation begin to emerge.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ievolve.org/daily-wisdom-distinction-between-ego-and-unique-self-12-victim-or-player-2/" target="_blank">See the complete post on the Center for World Spirituality Website&#8212;><br />
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<a href="http://www.integralthinkers.com/authors/marc-gafni/" title="Marc Gafni Integral bio" target="_blank">Marc Gafni bio</a></p>
<p><a href="www.facebook.com/DrMarcGafni" target="_blank">See Marc Gafni on Facebook—></a></p>
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		<title>Partnering with God</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2013 13:24:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Kabbalists take the mandate of love implicit in self perception one step further. I need to understand that not only am I a part of God, but I am also a partner to God. Renaissance mystic Judah Loew of Prague writes that the litmus test of true love is mutuality. For him, this means [...]]]></description>
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The Kabbalists take the mandate of love implicit in self perception one step further. I need to understand that not only am I a part of God, but I am  also a partner to God.  Renaissance mystic Judah Loew of Prague writes that the litmus test of true love is mutuality. For him, this means that you love the person whom you complete and who completes you. Remember Shel Silverstein’s “The Missing Piece” – where a packman shaped circle roams the world in search of that singular pie sliver piece which will complete him? We are all on that epic quest for our missing piece. Lovers fill each other up. For the Kabbalists, this concept became the springboard for what is perhaps the most radical idea in biblical mysticism.  God the lover needs us just as we need God. We are God’s missing piece. The call of love is an expression of this missing piece need. God says, “I can’t do it without you. Come be my partner!”<br />
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		<title>Distinction between Ego and Unique Self #11 – King or Servant</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2013 03:33:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Dr. Marc Gafni in Your Unique Self. Ego is the servant pretending to be a king. You are avoiding stepping into your Unique Self for fear of being a king. Your ego thinks it is God but does not really believe it, so your ego insanely tries to make itself the God it knows [...]]]></description>
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<p>by Dr. Marc Gafni in <a href="http://uniqueself.com/" target="_blank">Your Unique Self</a>.</p>
<p>Ego is the servant pretending to be a king. You are avoiding stepping into your Unique Self for fear of being a king. Your ego thinks it is God but does not really believe it, so your ego insanely tries to make itself the God it knows it is not. <em><strong>Your Unique Self knows it is God, so it acts in the world with majesty, audacity, and grace.</strong></em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.ievolve.org/daily-wisdom-distinction-between-ego-and-unique-self-11-king-or-servant/" title="CWS Link" target="_blank">Read the full, fascinating discussion with CWS Scholar Kerstin Tuschik here&#8212;></a></p>
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		<title>Wisdom for your Week: A Conversation with John Mackey and Marc Gafni – Topic 5: Obligation</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 May 2013 01:39:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Listen to two leaders of the Center for World Spirituality, John Mackey, Chairman and CEO of Whole Foods Market, as well as the Co-Chair of the Center for World Spirituality Board of Trustees and co-author of Conscious Capitalism, and Marc Gafni, director of Center for World Spirituality and author of Your Unique Self and many [...]]]></description>
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<p>Listen to two leaders of the Center for World Spirituality, John Mackey, Chairman and CEO of Whole Foods Market, as well as the Co-Chair of the Center for World Spirituality Board of Trustees and co-author of <a href="http://www.consciouscapitalism.org/" target="_blank">Conscious Capitalism</a>, and <a href="http://www.marcgafni.com/" target="_blank">Marc Gafni</a>, director of Center for World Spirituality and author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Marc-Gafni/e/B001HMT0XS" target="_blank">Your Unique Self</a> and many other books, as they dive deep on Answering the Call to soulful Obligation. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.ievolve.org/wisdom-for-your-week-a-conversation-with-john-mackey-and-marc-gafni-topic-5-obligation/" title="CWS Video Mackey and Gafni" target="_blank">See the video&#8212;></a></p>
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		<title>&#8220;I Need!&#8221; &#8230; A Gift of the Lover</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 May 2013 15:42:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[from the forthcoming book by Marc Gafni, Dance of Tears All of these passages are rooted in the lovers model of relation between the person or the people and God. The key gift the lover gives to the beloved is to need the beloved. And the converse. The gift of the beloved to the lover [...]]]></description>
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<p>from the forthcoming book by Marc Gafni,</p>
<h5><em>Dance of Tears</em></h5>
<p>All of these passages are rooted in the lovers model of relation between the person or the people and God. The key gift the lover gives to the beloved is to need the beloved. And the converse. The gift of the beloved to the lover is to allow herself to need her lover. And of course the roles of lover and beloved are forever interchanging between the partners. This is the great gift of love for it fills the most basic and essential need of the human being; the need to be needed.<br />
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		<title>Wisdom for your Week: A Conversation with John Mackey and Marc Gafni – Topic 4: Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 17:52:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this week’s video Wisdom Post on the Center for World Spirituality website, Marc Gafni, author of Your Unique Self, and John Mackey, co-author of Conscious Capitalism, revisit the moment of their first meeting when John made a lasting impression on Marc with the words, “Love is not weak. Love is strong.&#8221; With this as [...]]]></description>
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<p>In this week’s video Wisdom Post on the Center for World Spirituality website, <a href="http://uniqueself.com/about-the-book/marc-gafni/" target="_blank">Marc Gafni</a>, author of <a href="http://uniqueself.com/" target="_blank"><i>Your Unique Self</i></a>, and John Mackey, co-author of <a href="http://www.consciouscapitalism.org/" target="_blank"><i>Conscious Capitalism</i></a>, revisit the moment of their first meeting when John made a lasting impression on Marc with the words, “Love is not weak. Love is strong.&#8221; With this as a starting point for this fourth topic in the seven-part dialogue series between these two visionary leaders, they discuss “love coming out of the closet” as a real force in business, a force which can enable greater workplace bonding, creativity, and innovative business practice that leads to competitive advantage.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ievolve.org/wisdom-for-your-week-a-conversation-with-john-mackey-and-marc-gafni-topic-4-love/" title="Marc Gafni and John Mackey on Love is Strong" target="_blank">See Video on Center for World Spirituality website&#8212;></a><br />
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		<title>The Next Step in Transformation: Unique Self, Organizational Leadership and the Destiny of Nations</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 20:08:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A 3-Part Web Tele-Series with Richard Barrett and Marc Gafni Thought Leaders Marc Gafni and Richard Barrett will engage in a free, 3-part monthly tele-series in April, May and June. See below for dates, times, full descriptions of each session, and how to register. &#160; Do not miss this provocative and complementary series of dialogues [...]]]></description>
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<h6>A 3-Part Web Tele-Series with Richard Barrett and Marc Gafni</h6>
<p>Thought Leaders <a title="Marc bio" href="http://www.marcgafni.com/dr-marc-gafni-biography/" target="_blank">Marc Gafni</a> and <a title="Richard Bio" href="http://www.valuescentre.com/richard_barrett/?sec=bio" target="_blank">Richard Barrett</a> will engage in a free, 3-part monthly tele-series in April, May and June. See below for dates, times, full descriptions of each session, and how to register.<br />
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<p>Do not miss this provocative and complementary series of dialogues between two globally recognized transformational thought leaders, Richard Barrett and Dr. Marc Gafni. Richard and Marc will share their latest thinking and technologies for transforming yourself, your workplace and the larger community or society in which you live.</p>
<p><h7>Dialogue One, April 27 @ 10am PT (1pm ET):<br />
&#8220;The Unique Self and Soul Activation: The Path of Personal Transformation&#8221;</h7></p>
<p><h7>Dialogue Two, May 18 @ 10am PT (1pm ET)<br />
&#8220;The Unique Self and the Organizational Success: The Path of Organizational Transformation&#8221;</h7></p>
<p><h7>Dialogue Three, June 15 @ 10am PT (1pm ET)<br />
&#8220;The Unique Self and Societal Development: The Path of Societal Transformation&#8221;</h7></p>
<p><a title="Webinar Registration" href="http://myaccount.maestroconference.com/conference/register/WDZ3TNZZNXVXB0R" target="_blank">Register Here&#8212;-&gt;<br />
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		<title>Evolving Complexity Equals Evolving Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Apr 2013 22:17:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Excerpted from Your Unique Self: The Radical Path to Personal Enlightenment by Dr. Marc Gafni From quarks to atoms to cells to molecules, onward and upward Teilhard de Chardin, Abraham Kook, and many other evolutionary mystics point out that complexity is but the outside view. The interior—not addressed by Jantsch or any of the chaos [...]]]></description>
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<p>Excerpted from <em>Your Unique Self: The Radical Path to Personal Enlightenment</em><br />
by Dr. Marc Gafni</p>
<p>From quarks to atoms to cells to molecules, onward and upward Teilhard de Chardin, Abraham Kook, and many other evolutionary mystics point out that complexity is but the outside view. The interior—not addressed by Jantsch or any of the chaos theorists—reveals that the higher the level of outer physical complexity, the more evolved the inner depth of consciousness. </p>
<blockquote><p>What emerges is that the movement of evolution is the movement to ever-higher levels of complexity and consciousness. At this point, the eye of the mind has reached its limits. Now, a new faculty of perception enters our conversation, what the Christian mystics called the “eye of the spirit,” what the Sufi teacher Rumi called the &#8220;eye of the heart,&#8221; and what Hebrew mystics called the &#8220;hidden eye.&#8221; </p></blockquote>
<p> The eye of the spirit, deployed throughout recorded time by the great realizers in all the traditions, in a great double-blind experiment of spirit, always revealed the same inner picture.  The eye of the spirit sees clearly that the inner fabric of consciousness is none other than love.  It would therefore be entirely accurate to say that the Eros of evolution is none other than the force of love.</p>
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		<title>Loving the Essence of Other Beings</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Apr 2013 16:51:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are challenged to expand the Love list in our lives to authentically embrace the many people we meet, bringing our Unique Self to each encounter. &#8220;Anyplace where you are regarded only as a function, where your name is not known and honored, you are a slave. Anytime you regard another as a mere instrument [...]]]></description>
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We are challenged to expand the Love list in our lives to authentically embrace the many people we meet, bringing our Unique Self to each encounter.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>&#8220;Anyplace where you are regarded only as a function, where your name is not known and honored, you are a slave. Anytime you regard another as a mere instrument in your design, you become a slave master and an oppressor. To be a lover is to know the name. It can be the name of the waiter, the taxi driver, of your accountants&#8217; son or of the mailman&#8217;s wife.</strong></em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><strong> By remembering the name, you become a lover.&#8221;</strong></em></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><em><strong>from The Mystery of Love</strong></em></p>
<p><a title="Marc Integral bio" href="www.integralthinkers.com/authors/marc-gafni/" target="_blank">by Marc Gafni</p>
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		<title>Being True to Your Unique Self With Morning Prayer</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Apr 2013 12:30:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Marc Gafni from a work in progress &#8220;Dance of Tears&#8221; Prayer is the restoration of the divine image through the restoration of the dignity of the word. Prayer, teach the masters, models sacred speech. Writes the Maggid of Mezeritch&#8230; &#8220;Take special care to guard your tongue Before the morning prayer, Even greeting your fellow [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>By Marc Gafni</h4>
<p>from a work in progress <em>&#8220;Dance of Tears&#8221;</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.marcgafni.com/?attachment_id=8385" rel="attachment wp-att-8385"><img src="http://www.marcgafni.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Woman-Praying-260x300.jpeg" alt="Woman Praying" width="260" height="300" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-8385" /></a></p>
<p><a href="www.integralthinkers.com/authors/marc-gafni/" title="More on Marc Gafni" target="_blank">Prayer is the restoration of the divine image</a> through the restoration of the dignity of the word.<br />
Prayer, teach the masters, models sacred speech.<br />
Writes the Maggid of Mezeritch&#8230;</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Take special care to guard your tongue<br />
Before the morning prayer,<br />
Even greeting your fellow we are told<br />
Can be harmful at that hour.<br />
A person who wakes up in the morning is<br />
Like a new creation,<br />
Begin your day with unkind words…<br />
Even though you may later turn to prayer,<br />
You have not been true to your creation.<br />
All of your words each day<br />
Are related one to another&#8230;<br />
All of them are rooted<br />
In the first words that you speak &#8211;<br />
{So begin each day with prayer}&#8221;</em></p>
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		<title>Emotional Mastery is Vital to Deep Spiritual Intelligence</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Apr 2013 23:50:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve Raymond</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Marc Gafni From a work in progress, Dance of Tears: Our goal is to be able to access and listen to the voice of deep emotion and detect within it the voice of God. This is how these mystics read the text, &#8220;The masters are those who have mastery over their hearts.&#8221; Mastery, a [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>by Marc Gafni</p>
<p><a href="http://www.marcgafni.com/emotional-mastery-is-vital-to-deep-spiritual-intelligence/color-tree/" rel="attachment wp-att-8361"><img src="http://www.marcgafni.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Color-Tree-300x300.jpeg" alt="Color Tree" width="250" height="250" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-8361" /></a></p>
<h4><a href="www.integralthinkers.com/authors/marc-gafni/ " title="Marc Gafni biography" target="_blank">From a work in progress, <em>Dance of Tears</em>:<br />
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<p>Our goal is to be able to access and listen to the voice of deep emotion and detect within it the voice of God.  This is how these mystics read the text, &#8220;The masters are those who have mastery over their hearts.&#8221;  Mastery, a kind of spiritual emotional intelligence, is understood as the ability to be not merely emotionally reactive, welling up with tears, laughter or anger only in response to some external event. To be a master is the ability to identify and access a broad range of deep emotions at will, using those depth emotions to guide and interpret reality with the eyes of God.  While the intellect clearly remains a vital tool, the <a href="http://radicalkabbalah.com/" title="Marc Gafni Kabbalah mystical teachings" target="_blank">prophetic kabbalistic tradition</a> insists that one who engages spirit, &#8220;with only mind and intellect….cannot attain the level of the Garden of Eden …. the inner emotional work of amazement, deep feeling and ecstasy … in this world {which is} part of the enlightenment of the higher worlds.&#8221;  It is only by doing this work that &#8220;you can experience your future redeemed world, your portion in the Garden of Eden &#8230; in this world.&#8221;</p>
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