The Kabbalists take the mandate of love implicit in self perception one step further. I need to understand that not only am I a part of God, but I am also a partner to God. Renaissance mystic Judah Loew of Prague writes that the litmus test of true love is mutuality. For him, this means [...]
Distinction between Ego and Unique Self #11 – King or Servant
by Dr. Marc Gafni in Your Unique Self. Ego is the servant pretending to be a king. You are avoiding stepping into your Unique Self for fear of being a king. Your ego thinks it is God but does not really believe it, so your ego insanely tries to make itself the God it knows [...]
Wisdom for your Week: A Conversation with John Mackey and Marc Gafni – Topic 5: Obligation
Listen to two leaders of the Center for World Spirituality, John Mackey, Chairman and CEO of Whole Foods Market, as well as the Co-Chair of the Center for World Spirituality Board of Trustees and co-author of Conscious Capitalism, and Marc Gafni, director of Center for World Spirituality and author of Your Unique Self and many [...]
“I Need!” … A Gift of the Lover
from the forthcoming book by Marc Gafni, Dance of Tears All of these passages are rooted in the lovers model of relation between the person or the people and God. The key gift the lover gives to the beloved is to need the beloved. And the converse. The gift of the beloved to the lover [...]
Wisdom for your Week: A Conversation with John Mackey and Marc Gafni – Topic 4: Love
In this week’s video Wisdom Post on the Center for World Spirituality website, Marc Gafni, author of Your Unique Self, and John Mackey, co-author of Conscious Capitalism, revisit the moment of their first meeting when John made a lasting impression on Marc with the words, “Love is not weak. Love is strong.” With this as [...]
The Next Step in Transformation: Unique Self, Organizational Leadership and the Destiny of Nations
A 3-Part Web Tele-Series with Richard Barrett and Marc Gafni Thought Leaders Marc Gafni and Richard Barrett will engage in a free, 3-part monthly tele-series in April, May and June. See below for dates, times, full descriptions of each session, and how to register. Do not miss this provocative and complementary series of dialogues [...]
Evolving Complexity Equals Evolving Love
Excerpted from Your Unique Self: The Radical Path to Personal Enlightenment by Dr. Marc Gafni From quarks to atoms to cells to molecules, onward and upward Teilhard de Chardin, Abraham Kook, and many other evolutionary mystics point out that complexity is but the outside view. The interior—not addressed by Jantsch or any of the chaos [...]
Loving the Essence of Other Beings
We are challenged to expand the Love list in our lives to authentically embrace the many people we meet, bringing our Unique Self to each encounter. “Anyplace where you are regarded only as a function, where your name is not known and honored, you are a slave. Anytime you regard another as a mere instrument [...]
The Fourth Law of Unique Self Encounters
You Never Know By Marc Gafni The goal of Unique Self consciousness is to fully receive and be received in deep understanding and empathy. Yet how often are we simply unable to understand one another? Receiving each other becomes next to impossible because of distance, strangeness, hurry, deafness, carelessness, or inevitable differences in the languages [...]
Patterns that Connect: Marc Gafni
The Fourth Face of Eros: The Interconnectivity of Being Patterns that Connect Longing, desire and tears remind us of the fourth strand in the erotic weave. They whisper to us that we are all interconnected. No human stands alone. The word “religion” traces its source to the Latin root ligare which, similar to ligament, is [...]
The motivation for Gossip: Marc Gafni
marc gafni posted on marcgafni.com share comments on info@marcgafni.com Kabbalah scholars point out that one of the defining characteristic of the Zohar mystics is that illumination happened not in solitary retreat but in groups engaged in sacred conversation. Fulfillment comes not from escaping but from engaging. So carefully watch and you will see that a [...]
The Wounds of Love:
As I move forward, dear friends, I’d like to share a few final reflections about the last two years and the explosion that led up to it. For the past two years, I have not been able to go more than a short time without being overwhelmed by sharp pangs of pain, suffused with tears. [...]
Eros and Holiness: Part Six: Marc Gafni
marc gafni published on marcgafni.com please share comments on info@marcgafni.com We abuse the earth and allow twenty million people to die of hunger or related diseases every year. The simple and essential cause is a lack of Eros. We desperately need to feel like we are full but we aren’t. So we settle for pseudo [...]
General Press Articles and Interviews
Published articles in the general media suffer from many flaws. This is well known to anyone who has ever been close to a situation and then seen how it is reported in the press. None the less we decided to re-publish here a series of articles on Marc Gafni’s work which date from mid eighties [...]











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