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Eros & Ethics

“The sexual models the erotic, it doesn’t exhaust the erotic”

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Eros is the deepest Reality of Cosmos, the pulse of evolution, the universal energy of emergence, intimacy, and wholeness. CosmoErotic Humanism unfolds a new evolutionary theory of Eros, a phenomenology of Eros, and re-imagines the ancient sacred mysteries of Eros. Eros and ethics are central to the possibilities for humanity in the coming century.

Eroticism is not merely sex. The sexual, sex models Eros, it models what it means to live erotically in every dimension of your life. To live erotically is to be on the inside, to experience fullness of presence, to participate in the yearning force of being, to feel your wholeness, your interconnectivity with the all, to access the fullness of your imagination, to experience the masculine and feminine that live in your life, loving you open and inviting you to love the moment open.


Listen to Dr. Marc Gafni on Aubrey Marcus’ podcast on the “Secrets of the CosmoErotic Universe”!


“All of Reality is Driven by the Erotic”:



CosmoErotic Humanism:


Eros, Intimacy & Relationships:



The Murder of Eros:

A Return to Eros by Dr. Marc Gafni & Dr. Kristina Kincaid:


Sex is not negative or positive. Sex is not just neutral, nor is it merely sacred because it creates babies. None of these old sexual stories work for us anymore. We need a new sexual narrative. This book gives the new sexual narrative, what the authors call “sex erotic”.

A Return to Eros: On Sex, Love, and Eroticism in Every Dimension of Life, from Drs. Marc Gafni and Kristina Kincaid, reveals the radical secret tenets of relationship between the sexual, the erotic, and the holy. They reveal what Eros actually means and share the ten core qualities of the erotic, which are modeled by the sexual. These include being on the inside, fullness of presence, yearning, allurement, fantasy, surrender, creativity, pleasure, and more.

A Return to Eros shows why these qualities of the erotic modeled by the sexual are actually the same core qualities of the sacred. To be an outrageous lover – not just in sex but also in all facets of your life – you must listen deeply to the simple yet elegant whisperings of the sexual. This book will forever transform your understanding and experience of love, sex, and Eros.

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To experience the fullness of union with the higher reality, to have time stop still and enter in to that timeless time, and placeless place. To feel the fullness of your creativity, your longing, awake in you. To be erotic is to be alive.

Are you ready my friend, to begin to live the fullness of your erotical life?

You have two choices in the world: wake up erotically or die. Wake up. Join us.

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