Archive for October, 2008

An Erotic Hero: The Falafel Priest

Posted on: October 5th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

An Erotic Hero, the Falafel Priest Once — and I will never forget it – I unexpectedly stepped into the Holy of Holies at a falafal stand. We were returning from visiting my sons Eytan and Yair in summer camp near the town of Hadera in Israel. ...

Kiss and Cry: Marc Gafni [

Posted on: October 5th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

One of the most poignant moments of the Hebrew wedding is the mythic rite of the groom’s placing of a veil over the face of the bride. In doing this, he recognizes that so much of her is still hidden from him and he commits his life to coming to kn ...

Yom Kippur and Eros: Marc Gafni

Posted on: October 4th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

post two in series of Yom Kippur Posts: Interestingly enough, Yom Kippur, along with Tu’be’Av, the fifteenth of Av, which is a summertime Holiday of Love, is thought of by the Talmud as the day for erotic matchmaking: “Rabban Shimon ben Gamliei ...

On Yom Kippur

Posted on: October 4th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

posted by Gafni assistant: This is the first in a series of Yom Kippur posts that Marc Gafni has prepared. Yom Kippur -day of atonement – at -one- ment is the ultimate day of eros in hebrew wisdom. Yom Kippur – speaks to every human being ...

Keep your heart open even when you are hurt: Marc Gafni

Posted on: October 3rd, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

In Hebrew tradition a wedding is meant to expand and not narrow the circle of Eros. If the through the lover each is able to love the world more then the it is considered a good marriage. If the result of their love is a narrowing in which the world ...

Falling in Love is all to often Selfish: Marc Gafni

Posted on: October 3rd, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

Rumi knowingly instructs us: Let the beauty that we love be what we do. There are hundreds of ways to kneel and kiss the Ground. So too with falling in love. Just as it is non-erotic for art to exist only in a museum, so too it is non-erotic for love ...

It’s All Art: Marc Gafni

Posted on: October 2nd, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

It’s All Art! Whenever we keep eros confined to one narrow frame of being while de-eroticzing the rest of the picture — the Shechina remains in exile. Sex is only one of the places where we exile the erotic. There is a wonderful Balinese saying w ...

More on the sources of Tantra: Marc Gafni

Posted on: October 2nd, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

It is beyond the scope of these blogs work to fully document the historical path of Hebrew Tantra. Suffice it to say that on a scholarly level Eliade already provides the Alexandrian link between Indian Tantra and the Western mysteries which took roo ...

Hebrew Tantra and Hindu Tantra: Marc Gafni

Posted on: October 1st, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

So our return to Hebrew tantra is a return to a fountain from which all these great wisdoms sprang. There are, however, two enormous differences between Hebrew and Hindu tantra in their classical sources. In much of Hindu tantra it is the avoidance o ...