Archive for the ‘Eros-Ethics-Meaning’ Category

Keep your heart open even when you are hurt: Marc Gafni

Posted on: October 3rd, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

In Hebrew tradition a wedding is meant to expand and not narrow the circle of Eros. If the through the lover each is able to love the world more then the it is considered a good marriage. If the result of their love is a narrowing in which the world ...

Falling in Love is all to often Selfish: Marc Gafni

Posted on: October 3rd, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

Rumi knowingly instructs us: Let the beauty that we love be what we do. There are hundreds of ways to kneel and kiss the Ground. So too with falling in love. Just as it is non-erotic for art to exist only in a museum, so too it is non-erotic for love ...

It’s All Art: Marc Gafni

Posted on: October 2nd, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

It’s All Art! Whenever we keep eros confined to one narrow frame of being while de-eroticzing the rest of the picture — the Shechina remains in exile. Sex is only one of the places where we exile the erotic. There is a wonderful Balinese saying w ...

More on the sources of Tantra: Marc Gafni

Posted on: October 2nd, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

It is beyond the scope of these blogs work to fully document the historical path of Hebrew Tantra. Suffice it to say that on a scholarly level Eliade already provides the Alexandrian link between Indian Tantra and the Western mysteries which took roo ...

Hebrew Tantra and Hindu Tantra: Marc Gafni

Posted on: October 1st, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

So our return to Hebrew tantra is a return to a fountain from which all these great wisdoms sprang. There are, however, two enormous differences between Hebrew and Hindu tantra in their classical sources. In much of Hindu tantra it is the avoidance o ...

The Wisdom of Solomon: An Esoteric Mystery

Posted on: September 30th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

posted by r. Gafni Assistant On the hidden teachings of the Wisdom of Solomon: R. Simha Bunim of Pshischa in Kol Simha, quoted in Kol Mevaser on I Kings 11:6: “King Solomon desired to heal evil, that is, that evil be integrated in good. This is why ...

Tantric Pilgrims: Marc Gafni

Posted on: September 30th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

posted by Marc Gafni assistant: Marc away for Holiday. The Tantric Pilgrims First, to everyone reading, thanks to my assistant for posting and Shanah Tova U-Metuka; a good and sweet year for everyone. Three times a year pilgrims would gather in Jerus ...

I am so happy. I am so sad. I am: Marc Gafni

Posted on: September 29th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

Today is the even of the Jewish New Year. I am about to call my two sons, my father and mother. I am about to call my family who are my friends, students and colleagues to wish everyone a shanah tovah. A good year it should be. It will be. I am sitti ...

Song of Songs: Marc Gafni

Posted on: September 28th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

Now the moralist will be quick to say, “Yes, he is right! Sex isn’t the answer!” Yet, I for one, as teacher and a human being, do not go with the moralists. That is precisely the point of the secret of the cherubs. Sex is the answer. The secret ...

The Split of Sex and Eros: Marc Gafni

Posted on: September 27th, 2008 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

One of most famous images of the Shechina in exile laced throughout the Zohar is the prostitute. The problem with prostitution is not primarily an ethical problem. Ethical prostitutes can have far more moral decency then the ostensible pillars of the ...

Healing the Split: Marc Gafni

Posted on: September 26th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

this post was sent to me by R. Marc on friday afternoon. Healing the Split The Shechina is exiled whenever sex and eros are split. Jake, age 37, works as a claims adjuster in an insurance firm. Often he works well into the night. He feels oppressed b ...

Stolen Waters are Sweet ReLoaded: Marc Gafni

Posted on: September 26th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

ps. on yesterdays blogs… The goal is to commit adultery with your wife. I know literally tens of spiritual teachers who have at one time or another not succeeded in this goal. I know tens of spiritual teachers – those very same ones ̵ ...

Stolen Waters are Sweet: Marc Gafni

Posted on: September 25th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

“Drink the water of your own cistern, and running water of your own well. So will your spring be prolific outside, and streams of water will flow in the streets. They will be yours alone, and strangers will have no place in your intimacy. Your sour ...

Stolen Waters are Sweet: Marc Gafni

Posted on: September 25th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

The fall of the Temple is the mythic expression of the exile of the erotic, not only into the sexual, but specifically into boundary-breaking sexuality. Listen in on a strange and wonderfully mythic talmudic discussion! A reposting from yesterday in ...

Stolen Waters are Sweet: Marc Gafni

Posted on: September 24th, 2008 by Marc Gafni No Comments

The fall of the Temple is the mythic expression of the exile of the erotic, not only into the sexual, but specifically into boundary-breaking sexuality102. Listen in on a strange and wonderfully mythic Talmudic discussion! A man is struck by the beau ...