Archive for the ‘Blog-Series: Falling in Love’ Category

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Nine: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 28th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 3 Comments

Posted by Dr. Marc Gafni assistant Drunk With Fire This balance between ecstatic and normative, between in and out of love reflects a deeper ebb and flow within us. There are two forces which vie for domination in our lives. Each one must be honored. ...

Drunk with Fire: Falling in Love: Part Twenty Eight: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 27th, 2009 by Marc Gafni No Comments

Drunk With Fire This balance between ecstatic and normative, between in and out of love reflects a deeper ebb and flow within us. There are two forces which vie for domination in our lives. Each one must be honored. They are our wild ecstatic, sensuo ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Seven: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 26th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

Through the Thou a person becomes I. —Martin Buber, I and Thou The philosopher who guides us on this path most clearly is Martin Buber. He talks in terms of what he calls “dialogic thinking.” Put simply, that means that there must be an I and a ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Six: The Wonder of the the Law: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 25th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

Dedicated to the Law, the way, Halacho and to Chief Justices wherever they might be… One of the great moments of ecstasy in modernity was the drug culture of the sixties. While the culture has faded and we are left with drugs as just one more f ...

“Let Go of My Ego”: Falling in Love: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 24th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

Ecstasy undermines our sense of ego and personhood. On one level, that is terrific. It is the gate to the shared identity of intimacy. Moreover, it is the healing of the original sin of misperception, the thinking that I am separate from God. It is t ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Five: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 23rd, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

The Grateful Dead and Getting Grounded The Grateful Dead’s music was possibly the modern muse that most invited us to spin out of our narrow lives and sense the world of ecstasy. I remember that after Jerry Garcia died, there was a stinging critiqu ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Four: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 22nd, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

Dedicated to the healing of my son eytan and all those in need of healing. The Service of Ecstasy The service of ecstasy, teaches the Holy Seer of Lublin, is the work of loving. It is the ultimate perception which is able to tease out the divine poin ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Three: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 19th, 2009 by Marc Gafni No Comments

This blog post and all the Torah that I am hugely privileged to share in these days, weeks and months, I offer for the full healing of my son Eytan who just been in a bad car accident in Israel. Thank God, though weak and bodily traumatized, he will ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty Two: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 15th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

In Ecstasy The perceptions of falling in love is but one expression however of a broader kind of perception. This higher way of seeing is the path of Ecstasy. Ecstasy, from the Greek word ex-stasis, means “to move beyond stasis,” that is “beyon ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty One: Marc Gafni[

Posted on: February 14th, 2009 by Marc Gafni No Comments

The Wisdom of the Womb Fifth century masters tell of an angel who comes and teaches all the wisdom of the world to us as we are growing in the womb. But upon our birth, that same angel puts its finger to our lips, and we forget all that we have learn ...

Falling in Love: Part Twenty: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 12th, 2009 by Marc Gafni No Comments

The Spiral of Shattering and Repair Redemption is greater than a simple return to our point of origin: it is a spiraling return which takes us higher. The Kabbalist captures this notion in the images of Tzimtzum, Shvirah and Tikkun – contractio ...

Falling in Love: Part Nineteen: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 11th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 1 Comment

Continued from yesterday. Good morning everyone. A gorgeous day to you all. This pattern of arousal from above, followed by a fall to which we need to respond with avodah — human work — is not only the pattern of love in relationship. It reveals ...

Falling in Love: Part Eighteen: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 10th, 2009 by Marc Gafni No Comments

“Joy whose hand is ever at his lips, Bidding adieu.” (Keats) Suddenly finding ourselves having to work for what was first experienced as a gift of magical purity can be infuriating, until we realize that losing paradise is not a cruel personal pu ...

Falling In Love: Part Seventeen: Remember The Night You Fell In Love: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 9th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 2 Comments

Vessels and Light Light is the symbol of love. When the vessels are repaired then they will once again be able to hold the light. So falling in love is somewhat like gazing directly into the midday sun: we cannot contain the light without first prepa ...

Falling in Love: Part Sixteen: Marc Gafni

Posted on: February 7th, 2009 by Marc Gafni 2 Comments

So picking up from yesterday. There are three reasons for this essential pattern of the spirit rooted in the sexual and expressed so powerfully in love and Eros. One: Kabbalists begin from the clarity of personal experience. We do not work to fall in ...